Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Agreed, worth a go IMO. Delivery here is hugely important though since she's moving, so you'll need great delivery and presence to get her to stop and give you a chance to game her. Worth a go though especially if you get an IOI.DonJoseCantosie said:Aright man, the first thing you gotta do is.
1) There's a straight line of where she's walking....be on that line.
2) As she's sort of close by to where u are at(Since she's still walking on that line)....put ur hand up in a stop motion.
3) Then say "Stop!" not too too loud but powerful enough with a smile
Then she'll stop...make sure ur hand is up until she makes a full stop.
4) Then say what u want to say when opening.
Good Luck
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yeah, it's situations like these where the "Hi, I think you are gorgeous, are you single?" opener is worthy of using. Man I love day game lol.DonJoseCantosie said:This is suited for being right in front of her. Now if she's giving u an IOI, still say stop but the stop hand motion isn't needed at this point if she's walking past you.
. haha.Tone of voice mate. The way you say something can imply altogether a different meaning. If you end it on a high note it shows uncertainty. But delivered in the right way, it means 'in my opinion', not hesitance ...DonJoseCantosie said:I personally would just say "Your are" because u have already qualified her in terms of looks. Why not be honest and say it? When u say "I think" it implies that ur not 100% sure....which i think is less effect than saying what u've done already. Yes, direct is definitely best when done this way
Day Game does kick ass, but i def suck at night game much worse. Its personally harder for me...especially at frat parties...if a girl isn't dancing..im just at a blank of what to talk about since they don't got the same attention span a girl does during the day.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.