I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Agreed, worth a go IMO. Delivery here is hugely important though since she's moving, so you'll need great delivery and presence to get her to stop and give you a chance to game her. Worth a go though especially if you get an IOI.DonJoseCantosie said:Aright man, the first thing you gotta do is.
1) There's a straight line of where she's walking....be on that line.
2) As she's sort of close by to where u are at(Since she's still walking on that line)....put ur hand up in a stop motion.
3) Then say "Stop!" not too too loud but powerful enough with a smile
Then she'll stop...make sure ur hand is up until she makes a full stop.
4) Then say what u want to say when opening.
Good Luck
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah, it's situations like these where the "Hi, I think you are gorgeous, are you single?" opener is worthy of using. Man I love day game lol.DonJoseCantosie said:This is suited for being right in front of her. Now if she's giving u an IOI, still say stop but the stop hand motion isn't needed at this point if she's walking past you.
. haha.Tone of voice mate. The way you say something can imply altogether a different meaning. If you end it on a high note it shows uncertainty. But delivered in the right way, it means 'in my opinion', not hesitance ...DonJoseCantosie said:I personally would just say "Your are" because u have already qualified her in terms of looks. Why not be honest and say it? When u say "I think" it implies that ur not 100% sure....which i think is less effect than saying what u've done already. Yes, direct is definitely best when done this way
Day Game does kick ass, but i def suck at night game much worse. Its personally harder for me...especially at frat parties...if a girl isn't dancing..im just at a blank of what to talk about since they don't got the same attention span a girl does during the day.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.