"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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approaching girls among guy friends

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There is a cute girl in one of my classes and we ALWAYS make eye contact in class and we even have these retarded staring contests... but I am afraid to approach because she is always among her alpha male friends. Is it a good idea to approach her anyway and just open her in front of all those people? For some reason I'm really scared to. should i just ignore the guys and game her? i'm paranoid that that the guys will try to AMOG me or something
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i am me

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Guys are usually cool about staying out of your way if they know you like the girl and they don't have a thing for the girl themselves. Anyways, just take a deep breath and do it. You don't have to prove anything to anyone there, so dont worry what they think, aite?
 

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It'll show you got balls so do it.
 

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I just got some useful advice from dementia. Always assume you are the best guy. Forget the rest of them.
 
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