"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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approaching girls among guy friends

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There is a cute girl in one of my classes and we ALWAYS make eye contact in class and we even have these retarded staring contests... but I am afraid to approach because she is always among her alpha male friends. Is it a good idea to approach her anyway and just open her in front of all those people? For some reason I'm really scared to. should i just ignore the guys and game her? i'm paranoid that that the guys will try to AMOG me or something
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i am me

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Guys are usually cool about staying out of your way if they know you like the girl and they don't have a thing for the girl themselves. Anyways, just take a deep breath and do it. You don't have to prove anything to anyone there, so dont worry what they think, aite?
 

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It'll show you got balls so do it.
 

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I just got some useful advice from dementia. Always assume you are the best guy. Forget the rest of them.
 
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