“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Approaching females

jgutta23

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How do you guys go about approaching females?

Any tips or lines that worked for you?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Alvafe

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go out adn talk with then? ask anything you feel like knowing? how you talk with guys?
 

pipe007

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Don't listen to the guys above.
If you have never approached a girl in the past, it will SEEM like the hardest and scariest thing to do in the whole world.

the guys who say pfffff you idiot, just go and do it do not get where you are coming from, they have probably 10000s of approaches already, or are just trolls (most likely)

yes I have done more than 500 approaches probably this year, so I know wtf im talking about.... approaching girls will be hard at first, but if you are willing to go through the pain of embarrassment and humiliation that will happen over and over again until you slowly start developing basic social skills to keep a conversation

with time, you will start to develop attractive personality traits, humor, confidence, with time after months and months of approaching girls, you will start to become indifferent, the moment you realize you don't give a damn what a girl things of you, you will start to say funny, outrageous things that will generate attraction

for now.. you care too much! you need lines, you need a positive reaction from them, so you don't get it. you need to get out there and fail too many times

good luck!!!

just say "hey I saw you, and I had to come meet you"
"hey you are cute, I had to come talk to you"
if she is walking towards you get in front of her ( hey I see you, and I have to say Hi to you)


and then just practice being normal... once you become VERY comfortable talking to girls, practice being INDIFERENT to the outcome, INDIFERENT to their reaction towards you... eventually practice being funny, silly, and sexual
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Alvafe

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pipe007 said:
Don't listen to the guys above.
If you have never approached a girl in the past, it will SEEM like the hardest and scariest thing to do in the whole world.

the guys who say pfffff you idiot, just go and do it do not get where you are coming from, they have probably 10000s of approaches already, or are just trolls (most likely)

yes I have done more than 500 approaches probably this year, so I know wtf im talking about.... approaching girls will be hard at first, but if you are willing to go through the pain of embarrassment and humiliation that will happen over and over again until you slowly start developing basic social skills to keep a conversation

with time, you will start to develop attractive personality traits, humor, confidence, with time after months and months of approaching girls, you will start to become indifferent, the moment you realize you don't give a damn what a girl things of you, you will start to say funny, outrageous things that will generate attraction

for now.. you care too much! you need lines, you need a positive reaction from them, so you don't get it. you need to get out there and fail too many times

good luck!!!

just say "hey I saw you, and I had to come meet you"
"hey you are cute, I had to come talk to you"
if she is walking towards you get in front of her ( hey I see you, and I have to say Hi to you)


and then just practice being normal... once you become VERY comfortable talking to girls, practice being INDIFERENT to the outcome, INDIFERENT to their reaction towards you... eventually practice being funny, silly, and sexual

nope I don't, i'm saying what I had to deal with, i'm the shy nerd kind, stay quiet and most of time don't lose my time getting out of my way.

but one thing is if he want to talk with anyone only way for him to learn it is doing it, after sometime you will start to realize you can talk with anyone, if you don't care about they opnion of you because you are not really wanting anything then asking for a question about a street or where is X place, same for guys when you are new in a place of work or school.

he need to aproach so jsut go and talk don't need to take the phone number if you jsut want to see what you can do and talk, just go and talk get some experience on how to break ice with random people, after you are ok doing it you can start to get the phone number or go on.

worked for me it can or not work for the op but he have to find a way to get experience, I will always consider lack of experience for any problem, so sorry no easy way or 1-2-3 steps go out and learn
 

Demonpenz

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Get out and approach until you have it down. Never pass one up because you need to get this handled.
 

ImaNerd

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Confidence is the key.

If you smile and act confident, that's half the battle. Keep in mind, she's not the only woman in the world. You lose her, who cares? Move on.
 
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