“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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If you have never approached a girl in the past, it will SEEM like the hardest and scariest thing to do in the whole world.
the guys who say pfffff you idiot, just go and do it do not get where you are coming from, they have probably 10000s of approaches already, or are just trolls (most likely)
yes I have done more than 500 approaches probably this year, so I know wtf im talking about.... approaching girls will be hard at first, but if you are willing to go through the pain of embarrassment and humiliation that will happen over and over again until you slowly start developing basic social skills to keep a conversation
with time, you will start to develop attractive personality traits, humor, confidence, with time after months and months of approaching girls, you will start to become indifferent, the moment you realize you don't give a damn what a girl things of you, you will start to say funny, outrageous things that will generate attraction
for now.. you care too much! you need lines, you need a positive reaction from them, so you don't get it. you need to get out there and fail too many times
good luck!!!
just say "hey I saw you, and I had to come meet you"
"hey you are cute, I had to come talk to you"
if she is walking towards you get in front of her ( hey I see you, and I have to say Hi to you)
and then just practice being normal... once you become VERY comfortable talking to girls, practice being INDIFERENT to the outcome, INDIFERENT to their reaction towards you... eventually practice being funny, silly, and sexual
pipe007 said:
nope I don't, i'm saying what I had to deal with, i'm the shy nerd kind, stay quiet and most of time don't lose my time getting out of my way.
but one thing is if he want to talk with anyone only way for him to learn it is doing it, after sometime you will start to realize you can talk with anyone, if you don't care about they opnion of you because you are not really wanting anything then asking for a question about a street or where is X place, same for guys when you are new in a place of work or school.
he need to aproach so jsut go and talk don't need to take the phone number if you jsut want to see what you can do and talk, just go and talk get some experience on how to break ice with random people, after you are ok doing it you can start to get the phone number or go on.
worked for me it can or not work for the op but he have to find a way to get experience, I will always consider lack of experience for any problem, so sorry no easy way or 1-2-3 steps go out and learn