"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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approaching a group of 9's and 10's

YUNG DEMO

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so im a lil confused im just a young DJ in Training or DJT still in highschool so I am still a newbie so bare with me here. all i really want is an example on how to react in this scenerio: your at a "party,Mall,Beach,ETC.." and you see a group of about three 9's and one 10. you're with one of your boi's who has balls to walk up but isnt much of an intiating talker but still a good looking guy n your only wingman....these girls have made no eye contact of any sort with you but you still fllow the 3 sec rule and approach....now from here i need ya'll to take it.......will some one please learns me on this.....im just a young homie trying to turn the tables on high school and life in general in th next two years (senior year)....help me out....by the way i am also looking for a mentor!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Remember in star wars, when yoda is teaching luke how to use the force in his planet? The ship sinks and he tells luke that its no diferent from lifting a stone. And luke doesnt belive, and yoda floats the spaceship!

"Unlearn what you have learned" - Yoda

Aproaching a group of 9's is the same as aproaching a group ou 6's.

"Dont try, do it" - Yoda
 

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a group of 9's - 9.9's is very rare (no such thing as a 10), so rare in fact ive only seen it once (and i go out every weekend/thursdays)

it was about 2 years ago and there were about 6 chicks talking to eachother at this party i was at. My friend (wingman) and I just stared (along with almost every guy around) at them saying things like "..... hot...." with our tongues out.
My friend then got the balls to go over there and talk to them (they were older than us and i was AFC then) by himself... he got shot down pretty bad and came over and we just laughed about it but not in a bad way. IN my eyes he was a bada$$ for just going up there and gained a lot of respect from me

so in the end its not big deal, just make the approach with the knowledge you gain from here and let the chips fall where they may

ALWAYS APPROACH HOT CHICKS THEN THINK ABOUT IT LATER DO NOT HESITATE, WAIT 3 SECONDS OR WAIT FOR EYE CONTACT, JUST SACK UP AND DO IT
 
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Originally posted by Trance
Remember in star wars, when yoda is teaching luke how to use the force in his planet? The ship sinks and he tells luke that its no diferent from lifting a stone. And luke doesnt belive, and yoda floats the spaceship!

"Unlearn what you have learned" - Yoda

Aproaching a group of 9's is the same as aproaching a group ou 6's.

"Dont try, do it" - Yoda
Right on - I have a better analogy - "There is no spoon" The Matrix.

You make the reality, and you do that by putting the onus upon yourself to make things happen!
 

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thnx

thanks everyone for your replies they'll all be added to my technique.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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