I plan on asking this girl out at a place where I thought about getting a part-time job. When I first talked to her, I wasn't that interested so I came off pretty smooth. The second time was when I actually noticed her nice eyes and face, and I instantly became infatuated. That was about two weeks ago, and I haven't seen her since. I came by the store and ask one of the workers (who was hot in her own right) about her but she didn't know who I was talking about. I almost tried to mack on her but I resisted (un-DJ, I know). I plan on rolling over there in the evening, but the girl in question works the register. How do I approach her without an audience, without making her feel uncomfortable, and without embarrassing myself? Should I get an age check (I'm 22) or boyfriend check in advance or worry about that later? All advice appreciated.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Approaching a girl while working?
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