"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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okay. so a few weeks ago went i went to pay for my Macy's credit card bill i saw a girl and talked to her a little bit. i found out she actually goes to my college. i thought she was kinda cute and wanted to ask her out but the timing seemed all wrong since customers kept coming.

today i went back to the store to pay my credit card bill again and she was working again. so i pay for my bill and talk to her a little bit. ask her how school is and everything. i was gonna ask her for her number, but a customer came and was waiting to be helped. so i just said oh it looks like you guys are getting busy and we said bye. i get home and start kicking myself for not asking her out.

any advice on what to do? I'm thinking of going back to the mall tomorrow and just act like i had to return something (at another store) and just asking her out then. any help would be appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you never shoot you never score.

Go up there and ask her. Dont use excuses.

If a customer is waiting....Just look over to the customer and say "Dont let me get in the way." Let the customer be served and sorted then go back to chatting...

Important: Shes at work. If she shows shes not intrested then leave her alone. She cant flee from her store to move away. You will know if she is not intrested. She will make it obious. (at least i do) No eye contact...short one word answers.


Sarge On!
 

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well, i was just thinking of picking up a pair of jeans that i liked and paying @ her register (if she's there). i realize that 'returning something' excuse is lame lol. I'm probably gonna go back there later on today and see what's up. If she's not there tonight i'll just catch her next time i gotta pay for my card. Thanks for the help guys.

anyone else?
 

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UPDATE:

so i went back today to look @ some shoes and stopped by to see if she was there. she wasn't so i start walking out of the store. when i walk out i see her and 2 dudes sitting down on a mall bench. it turns out she was on her break, and one of the guys she was talking to was my cousin! lol so i say hi to her and start talking to my cousin and ask if she's single. i then just totally spaz out and i tell my cousin to give her my number.
on my way home i get a text from him saying she said to give you her number and she gave it to me. can't believe he actually came through lol.

i thought i totally ****ed that up but i ended up w/her number anyway. thanks everyone!
 

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Oh man, you must be destined to nail her. You got so lucky. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Natch

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Tomatoes said:
If a customer is waiting....Just look over to the customer and say "Dont let me get in the way." Let the customer be served and sorted then go back to chatting...
Awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I would also just ask her anyways. If you have her attention she's not looking at the customer , and , hey are you gonna let some dweeb buying a plaid shirt and a pair of Dockers stop your sarge? Fcuk no!
 
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