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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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approaching a girl while she's @ work

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okay. so a few weeks ago went i went to pay for my Macy's credit card bill i saw a girl and talked to her a little bit. i found out she actually goes to my college. i thought she was kinda cute and wanted to ask her out but the timing seemed all wrong since customers kept coming.

today i went back to the store to pay my credit card bill again and she was working again. so i pay for my bill and talk to her a little bit. ask her how school is and everything. i was gonna ask her for her number, but a customer came and was waiting to be helped. so i just said oh it looks like you guys are getting busy and we said bye. i get home and start kicking myself for not asking her out.

any advice on what to do? I'm thinking of going back to the mall tomorrow and just act like i had to return something (at another store) and just asking her out then. any help would be appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you never shoot you never score.

Go up there and ask her. Dont use excuses.

If a customer is waiting....Just look over to the customer and say "Dont let me get in the way." Let the customer be served and sorted then go back to chatting...

Important: Shes at work. If she shows shes not intrested then leave her alone. She cant flee from her store to move away. You will know if she is not intrested. She will make it obious. (at least i do) No eye contact...short one word answers.


Sarge On!
 

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well, i was just thinking of picking up a pair of jeans that i liked and paying @ her register (if she's there). i realize that 'returning something' excuse is lame lol. I'm probably gonna go back there later on today and see what's up. If she's not there tonight i'll just catch her next time i gotta pay for my card. Thanks for the help guys.

anyone else?
 

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UPDATE:

so i went back today to look @ some shoes and stopped by to see if she was there. she wasn't so i start walking out of the store. when i walk out i see her and 2 dudes sitting down on a mall bench. it turns out she was on her break, and one of the guys she was talking to was my cousin! lol so i say hi to her and start talking to my cousin and ask if she's single. i then just totally spaz out and i tell my cousin to give her my number.
on my way home i get a text from him saying she said to give you her number and she gave it to me. can't believe he actually came through lol.

i thought i totally ****ed that up but i ended up w/her number anyway. thanks everyone!
 

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Oh man, you must be destined to nail her. You got so lucky. :D
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Tomatoes said:
If a customer is waiting....Just look over to the customer and say "Dont let me get in the way." Let the customer be served and sorted then go back to chatting...
Awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I would also just ask her anyways. If you have her attention she's not looking at the customer , and , hey are you gonna let some dweeb buying a plaid shirt and a pair of Dockers stop your sarge? Fcuk no!
 
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