i've been approaching girls recently and been getting pretty good results. Chicks seem to dig me the moment i start talking to them, but i see PLENTY of hot chicks walking/talking with guys. Not sure if they're just friends or boyfriends, but i always let the girls with guys go to prevent a confrontation. But i was just wondering if i would just approach and politely ask the guy if they are together first before gaming the girl. You're being polite and confident at the same time. Any of you guys approach a girl when she's with guys? how did you handle it? did the guy try to **** block?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Approaching a girl when she's with a guy(s)?
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yea but most of the time, the guy is an AFC loser that is desperately trying to get in her pants and she's not even feeling him and has already friendzoned him. I've noticed plenty of times where a girl that was talking to a group of guys would literally eye **** me and not pay attention while the guy was talking to her and the guy would literally look at what she would be staring at :crackup: but i wouldnt do anything about it cause i didnt know how to approach the situation. Like i said, if the chick wants you, she'll let you know regardless of what some chump thinks. Women are always looking for an improvement.Espi said:
And im not talking about the club/bar scene. I'm talking about day game. So she's not going to be so *****y.
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Here's my SOP on this subject:
1. Open the guys.
2. Determine their status (orbiter, bf, suitor, etc).
3a. If they're the bf then game them enough to recruit them as pivot/wings.
3b. If they're orbiters then treat them as obstacles.
3c. If they're gaming the HB then put them on ./ignore and game the HB as normal. Once the attention shifts to you, and you are holding court, they'll usually just wander off.
To test for this, once you've ran some A2 game and just been talking to the guy a bit, drop a comment like "you guys look really comfortable together, how long you been married". If the HB is intersted you'll usually get the "Oh, we're not together" response. If the guy is a suitor that's your cue to ./ignore him. If he's an orbiter he'll be completely deflated and again, it's your cue to game the HB. "Oh, then you won't mind if I borrow her for a minute." OR "Well we'll just have to hook him up with someone now won't we..."
1. Open the guys.
2. Determine their status (orbiter, bf, suitor, etc).
3a. If they're the bf then game them enough to recruit them as pivot/wings.
3b. If they're orbiters then treat them as obstacles.
3c. If they're gaming the HB then put them on ./ignore and game the HB as normal. Once the attention shifts to you, and you are holding court, they'll usually just wander off.
To test for this, once you've ran some A2 game and just been talking to the guy a bit, drop a comment like "you guys look really comfortable together, how long you been married". If the HB is intersted you'll usually get the "Oh, we're not together" response. If the guy is a suitor that's your cue to ./ignore him. If he's an orbiter he'll be completely deflated and again, it's your cue to game the HB. "Oh, then you won't mind if I borrow her for a minute." OR "Well we'll just have to hook him up with someone now won't we..."
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.