"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Approaches

Daniel_March

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 29, 2010
Messages
45
Reaction score
4
I know how guys in the community like approaches so I will tell you a little field report from day game that happened today? hmm already yesterday...

I wasn't in the zone for approaching girls but I and my trusted wingman were not giving up. So I bought an energy drink ( seriously guys you should try that ****)
after having it I began to feel the buzz....

I see this random attractive girl walking by herself so I give my wingman the sign and I walk up to her.

Daniel: Hey...
*she turns around and is opening her skittles*
Cutie: Hi

Daniel: you seam familiar, what school do you go to?

Cutie: oh I look familiar do I? I am not in school...

*I look at skittles*

Daniel: can I have some?

Cutie: yes, sure...

Daniel: nice, thanks... Do you go to college then?

Cutie: yeah I go to New College

Daniel: oh right, I have a friend that goes there too...I am Daniel by the way...

Cutie: I am XXXXXX

Daniel: nice to meet ya....look, my friend over there is waiting for me (point at wingman) can I get your number?

Cutie: no I have a boyfriend...

Daniel: so what your boyfriend doesn't allow you to meet new friends?

Cutie: of course he does

*here I realise that there is no spark so I give her a cheeky Neg before going away*

Daniel: oh well, I thought I'd get to know you since you look like the friend type

*tap on shoulder*

Cutie: oh do I?

Daniel: yeah...

*grabbed some more skittles from her ;)*

...I'll see you around XXXXX

Cutie: Buh-bye....

Pretty basic convo, good practice and got some free sweets:)

feel free to comment
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2008
Messages
1,436
Reaction score
1,520
Age
37
Location
Los Angeles
she didn't have a bf

: p
 

Daniel_March

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 29, 2010
Messages
45
Reaction score
4
oh I am sure she didn't have a boyfriend, she just didn't want to seam like a ***** by saying that she wasn't interested.

The approach never the less was a success, its best to get rejected than regret never talking to the girl.

Plus as I said I got some sweets ;)

good luck in your game
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Adam B

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
90
Reaction score
3
Daniel_March said:
I know how guys in the community like approaches so I will tell you a little field report from day game that happened today? hmm already yesterday...

I wasn't in the zone for approaching girls but I and my trusted wingman were not giving up. So I bought an energy drink ( seriously guys you should try that ****)
after having it I began to feel the buzz....

I see this random attractive girl walking by herself so I give my wingman the sign and I walk up to her.

Daniel: Hey...
*she turns around and is opening her skittles*
Cutie: Hi

Daniel: you seam familiar, what school do you go to?

Cutie: oh I look familiar do I? I am not in school...

*I look at skittles*

Daniel: can I have some?

Cutie: yes, sure...

Daniel: nice, thanks... Do you go to college then?

Cutie: yeah I go to New College

Daniel: oh right, I have a friend that goes there too...I am Daniel by the way...

Cutie: I am XXXXXX

Daniel: nice to meet ya....look, my friend over there is waiting for me (point at wingman) can I get your number?

Cutie: no I have a boyfriend...

Daniel: so what your boyfriend doesn't allow you to meet new friends?

Cutie: of course he does

*here I realise that there is no spark so I give her a cheeky Neg before going away*

Daniel: oh well, I thought I'd get to know you since you look like the friend type

*tap on shoulder*

Cutie: oh do I?

Daniel: yeah...

*grabbed some more skittles from her ;)*

...I'll see you around XXXXX

Cutie: Buh-bye....

Pretty basic convo, good practice and got some free sweets:)

feel free to comment
I'm quoting just because this entire post is full of win. You worked on your game and you got free skittles! Good stuff!
 

Ease

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2009
Messages
1,320
Reaction score
51
You need to talk to her for a while before you go straight for the number lol.
 

Masculinity

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2009
Messages
1,906
Reaction score
547
Props for approaching. There is nothing worse than allowing your mind to reject yourself without even approaching her. Like another DJ said in this post: Getting rejected is better than not approaching. No approach is failure.

It's now common knowledge that she didn't have a boyfriend. You got the skittles and that's a major move, but you need to work on our conversation topics. School, work, weather and things of similar nature tend to bore girls and put you in the same place as the other three losers who tried to talk to her.

Openers/ conversations for next time:

-Asking for a female opinion
-Doing a magic trick
-Telling her she caught your eye, but you aren't sure about her and that you're there for her to tell you what she has to offer (this one is gold)
 

Adam B

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
90
Reaction score
3
Daniel_March said:
thanks a lot, man:)

do you have a field report to share with us?
Not any recently. I'm going to a New Years party tonight, so I might share that. I've had an account here for a while but don't post a lot since I didn't used to have my own computer. But I'm definitely approaching the next girl I see with candy thanks to you lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Daniel_March

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 29, 2010
Messages
45
Reaction score
4
ahh great stuff man, how'd it go?


and yes if you see them eating it, ask for some ;)
that way if you get a no, you leave with something hehehe :p
 

Daniel_March

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 29, 2010
Messages
45
Reaction score
4
Robyn923b said:
Props for approaching. There is nothing worse than allowing your mind to reject yourself without even approaching her. Like another DJ said in this post: Getting rejected is better than not approaching. No approach is failure.

It's now common knowledge that she didn't have a boyfriend. You got the skittles and that's a major move, but you need to work on our conversation topics. School, work, weather and things of similar nature tend to bore girls and put you in the same place as the other three losers who tried to talk to her.

Openers/ conversations for next time:

-Asking for a female opinion
-Doing a magic trick
-Telling her she caught your eye, but you aren't sure about her and that you're there for her to tell you what she has to offer (this one is gold)

I like being direct, so No.3 is the best option for me, gonna try it out...plus it is natural...
thanks man
 
Top