"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know how guys in the community like approaches so I will tell you a little field report from day game that happened today? hmm already yesterday...

I wasn't in the zone for approaching girls but I and my trusted wingman were not giving up. So I bought an energy drink ( seriously guys you should try that ****)
after having it I began to feel the buzz....

I see this random attractive girl walking by herself so I give my wingman the sign and I walk up to her.

Daniel: Hey...
*she turns around and is opening her skittles*
Cutie: Hi

Daniel: you seam familiar, what school do you go to?

Cutie: oh I look familiar do I? I am not in school...

*I look at skittles*

Daniel: can I have some?

Cutie: yes, sure...

Daniel: nice, thanks... Do you go to college then?

Cutie: yeah I go to New College

Daniel: oh right, I have a friend that goes there too...I am Daniel by the way...

Cutie: I am XXXXXX

Daniel: nice to meet ya....look, my friend over there is waiting for me (point at wingman) can I get your number?

Cutie: no I have a boyfriend...

Daniel: so what your boyfriend doesn't allow you to meet new friends?

Cutie: of course he does

*here I realise that there is no spark so I give her a cheeky Neg before going away*

Daniel: oh well, I thought I'd get to know you since you look like the friend type

*tap on shoulder*

Cutie: oh do I?

Daniel: yeah...

*grabbed some more skittles from her ;)*

...I'll see you around XXXXX

Cutie: Buh-bye....

Pretty basic convo, good practice and got some free sweets:)

feel free to comment
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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btownbuck2012

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she didn't have a bf

: p
 

Daniel_March

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oh I am sure she didn't have a boyfriend, she just didn't want to seam like a ***** by saying that she wasn't interested.

The approach never the less was a success, its best to get rejected than regret never talking to the girl.

Plus as I said I got some sweets ;)

good luck in your game
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Adam B

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Daniel_March said:
I know how guys in the community like approaches so I will tell you a little field report from day game that happened today? hmm already yesterday...

I wasn't in the zone for approaching girls but I and my trusted wingman were not giving up. So I bought an energy drink ( seriously guys you should try that ****)
after having it I began to feel the buzz....

I see this random attractive girl walking by herself so I give my wingman the sign and I walk up to her.

Daniel: Hey...
*she turns around and is opening her skittles*
Cutie: Hi

Daniel: you seam familiar, what school do you go to?

Cutie: oh I look familiar do I? I am not in school...

*I look at skittles*

Daniel: can I have some?

Cutie: yes, sure...

Daniel: nice, thanks... Do you go to college then?

Cutie: yeah I go to New College

Daniel: oh right, I have a friend that goes there too...I am Daniel by the way...

Cutie: I am XXXXXX

Daniel: nice to meet ya....look, my friend over there is waiting for me (point at wingman) can I get your number?

Cutie: no I have a boyfriend...

Daniel: so what your boyfriend doesn't allow you to meet new friends?

Cutie: of course he does

*here I realise that there is no spark so I give her a cheeky Neg before going away*

Daniel: oh well, I thought I'd get to know you since you look like the friend type

*tap on shoulder*

Cutie: oh do I?

Daniel: yeah...

*grabbed some more skittles from her ;)*

...I'll see you around XXXXX

Cutie: Buh-bye....

Pretty basic convo, good practice and got some free sweets:)

feel free to comment
I'm quoting just because this entire post is full of win. You worked on your game and you got free skittles! Good stuff!
 

Ease

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You need to talk to her for a while before you go straight for the number lol.
 

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Props for approaching. There is nothing worse than allowing your mind to reject yourself without even approaching her. Like another DJ said in this post: Getting rejected is better than not approaching. No approach is failure.

It's now common knowledge that she didn't have a boyfriend. You got the skittles and that's a major move, but you need to work on our conversation topics. School, work, weather and things of similar nature tend to bore girls and put you in the same place as the other three losers who tried to talk to her.

Openers/ conversations for next time:

-Asking for a female opinion
-Doing a magic trick
-Telling her she caught your eye, but you aren't sure about her and that you're there for her to tell you what she has to offer (this one is gold)
 

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Daniel_March said:
thanks a lot, man:)

do you have a field report to share with us?
Not any recently. I'm going to a New Years party tonight, so I might share that. I've had an account here for a while but don't post a lot since I didn't used to have my own computer. But I'm definitely approaching the next girl I see with candy thanks to you lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ahh great stuff man, how'd it go?


and yes if you see them eating it, ask for some ;)
that way if you get a no, you leave with something hehehe :p
 

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Robyn923b said:
Props for approaching. There is nothing worse than allowing your mind to reject yourself without even approaching her. Like another DJ said in this post: Getting rejected is better than not approaching. No approach is failure.

It's now common knowledge that she didn't have a boyfriend. You got the skittles and that's a major move, but you need to work on our conversation topics. School, work, weather and things of similar nature tend to bore girls and put you in the same place as the other three losers who tried to talk to her.

Openers/ conversations for next time:

-Asking for a female opinion
-Doing a magic trick
-Telling her she caught your eye, but you aren't sure about her and that you're there for her to tell you what she has to offer (this one is gold)

I like being direct, so No.3 is the best option for me, gonna try it out...plus it is natural...
thanks man
 
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