"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Approached girl again (unknowingly)

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I approached this girl whom I didn't recognize despite approaching her about 2 weeks ago.

(I saw her while standing in line to get my food. I made EC but she didn't. I approached anyway. At this point I had no idea it was the same girl)

Me:Hey what's up
Her: Hi (smile)
Me: What are you getting? (She was waiting for food)
Her: Pizza
Me: Cool
Her: I know you from somewhere ( She said it like a girl doing a pick-up line on some guy. I was shocked by this. I was thinking "wow, she actually likes me, and is doing the work conversationally")
Me: Oh (Looking at her like "sure...whatever"...but at the same time thinking deep to where I might have met her before)
Me: Where are you from?
Her: [Her city]
Me:[My city (very far from hers)]
Me: Where did we meet?
Her: What's your major?
Me [my major]
Her: Oh, that's right, I met you in the library. (she said it as she had met me in the library associated with me department. I have never seen her there)

(At this point, I start thinking maybe it is that girl)

Me:Which library?
Her: [Names the library]

(At this point, I know it's her and am shocked and embarressed as hell. I was thinking that she probably thinks I'm stalker her. So I go off and act AFC)

Me: Oh, that's you!?!?
Me: Wow, you look totally different!
Me: Your the one who's boyfriend is a graduate student in my department (she told me this last time I approached her)
Me: Didn't you have glasses on that day?
Her: Yeah
Me:Wow, you look like a different person!
Me: I had no idea it was you (I'm basically saying "I'm sorry for approaching you")
Me: All right, well have a good one. Bye

Then I walk off. So embarressed too. And I walked up to her with so much confidence . I even got good eye contact from her until I realized that I really ( I say "really" because as I said before I thought she was BS'ing when she said we had met before) have talked to her before and began remembering her.


Analysis?

I should have just stayed calm and acted naturally...even went with what I thought was going on ( she might have even purposely did that)?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Trance

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Your the one who brought the boyfriend up. I never mention them, if she's not interested she still wont be interested, if she wants to flirt altought having boyfriend, let her, why not? Having a good contact list may be good, and someday some of them may wake up and feel in the mood to give you a call, and you decide at that point if u're up to.
 
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Static, thanks for the laugh, you are over-dj-ing:D

You approached the same girl twice - I'm still laughing :D that never happened to me before but I see how you would be embarassed. At least your taste in women is consistent (even without glasses):D
 

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Haha I know the feeling :p

Once I approached this girl at a bar, was a friend of a friend or something. I was pretty drunk but I got her nr etc.... Next week I go down the stairs of the same bar and this really pretty blonde walks up the stairs and gives me a biiiig smile and I'm like wohoo I gotta hit that one up later... Which I did and then I remembered who she was :p Rofl had her nr and everything haha.
 
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