"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Approached by Over a Dozen Women the Past 2 Days!

new_hotness

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Man, I literally lost count of the number of women approaching me the last couple of days.

The thing is, I have been out with my friends (both guys and gals) and it can create a bit of jealousy and drama if I pick up women in front of them. The women in particular, are not fond of seeing this.

My friends are awesome and I love spending time with them to party, but I also don't want to be turning down a dozen+ women when I am out with them.

Thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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usernamedox11

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do you want us to tell you that you are super alpha and sexy or something?

Just take advantage of your opportunities
 

Who Dares Win

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What a noob, I get approached from a countless number of women and men anytime I go out.

No matter if Im leaving a restaurant, stopping with my car at a traffic light or simply waiting for the bus, they all come and get close to me despite I try to avoid eye contact of put my a$$hole shield, they want a piece of me so bad that even when I tell them that I have no coins, they still insist.
 

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Eat when you wanna sleep...or vice versa...or sidewayz...lol

WildCard
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko

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Who Dares Win said:
No matter if Im leaving a restaurant, stopping with my car at a traffic light or simply waiting for the bus, they all come and get close to me despite I try to avoid eye contact of put my a$$hole shield, they want a piece of me so bad that even when I tell them that I have no coins, they still insist.
It's your air of indifference and acting like an @sshole that is drawing them in. :)
 
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