"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Approached by Over a Dozen Women the Past 2 Days!

new_hotness

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Man, I literally lost count of the number of women approaching me the last couple of days.

The thing is, I have been out with my friends (both guys and gals) and it can create a bit of jealousy and drama if I pick up women in front of them. The women in particular, are not fond of seeing this.

My friends are awesome and I love spending time with them to party, but I also don't want to be turning down a dozen+ women when I am out with them.

Thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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usernamedox11

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do you want us to tell you that you are super alpha and sexy or something?

Just take advantage of your opportunities
 

Who Dares Win

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What a noob, I get approached from a countless number of women and men anytime I go out.

No matter if Im leaving a restaurant, stopping with my car at a traffic light or simply waiting for the bus, they all come and get close to me despite I try to avoid eye contact of put my a$$hole shield, they want a piece of me so bad that even when I tell them that I have no coins, they still insist.
 

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Eat when you wanna sleep...or vice versa...or sidewayz...lol

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Dares Win said:
No matter if Im leaving a restaurant, stopping with my car at a traffic light or simply waiting for the bus, they all come and get close to me despite I try to avoid eye contact of put my a$$hole shield, they want a piece of me so bad that even when I tell them that I have no coins, they still insist.
It's your air of indifference and acting like an @sshole that is drawing them in. :)
 
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