"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Approached a girl/Should I re-approach?

SpeedStick

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So I just started the "boot camp" a couple of days ago, and yesterday got the courage to approach a girl at school. I went up and stood behind her in the line-up at the bookstore. It was a huge line-up so after a while a made a comment like 'this is crazy' and we got talking. I think she seemed interested. A couple of times she started up a conversation after the previous one had died down, by making some sort of comment or asking a question.

Anyway, eventually we got to the end of the line-up and paid and that was it. We said 'bye' or 'see ya' to each other. Now, I may be seeing this girl again fairly soon, as our classes are around the same place. If I do, should I approach her again and ask for her number, or should I just leave it at that? Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kk2004

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come on

Come on now.. man.. you know the answer to your question.. Of course get her number...even if she doesnt see you in a romantic way..she can be a friend and having friends who are girls in college is a great asset. done.
 
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