Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Approached a girl/Should I re-approach?

SpeedStick

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So I just started the "boot camp" a couple of days ago, and yesterday got the courage to approach a girl at school. I went up and stood behind her in the line-up at the bookstore. It was a huge line-up so after a while a made a comment like 'this is crazy' and we got talking. I think she seemed interested. A couple of times she started up a conversation after the previous one had died down, by making some sort of comment or asking a question.

Anyway, eventually we got to the end of the line-up and paid and that was it. We said 'bye' or 'see ya' to each other. Now, I may be seeing this girl again fairly soon, as our classes are around the same place. If I do, should I approach her again and ask for her number, or should I just leave it at that? Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kk2004

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come on

Come on now.. man.. you know the answer to your question.. Of course get her number...even if she doesnt see you in a romantic way..she can be a friend and having friends who are girls in college is a great asset. done.
 
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