"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Approached a girl/Should I re-approach?

SpeedStick

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So I just started the "boot camp" a couple of days ago, and yesterday got the courage to approach a girl at school. I went up and stood behind her in the line-up at the bookstore. It was a huge line-up so after a while a made a comment like 'this is crazy' and we got talking. I think she seemed interested. A couple of times she started up a conversation after the previous one had died down, by making some sort of comment or asking a question.

Anyway, eventually we got to the end of the line-up and paid and that was it. We said 'bye' or 'see ya' to each other. Now, I may be seeing this girl again fairly soon, as our classes are around the same place. If I do, should I approach her again and ask for her number, or should I just leave it at that? Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kk2004

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come on

Come on now.. man.. you know the answer to your question.. Of course get her number...even if she doesnt see you in a romantic way..she can be a friend and having friends who are girls in college is a great asset. done.
 
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