Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Approached a cinema model today and got a date with her

sunnykhatri736

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I approached a cinema model today , she was HB9 i guess and i was super confident when i approached her and she was shocked to see my confidence. I asked her number and then she said " number ? I dont know u then how can i give u my number "
Me : if u give me ur number then it means u take a risk on me by trusting me and i dont let anyone down who trusts me. So whats ur number ?
She : ( gives her number )

I called her after 1 hr as i knew she was free.
Me : hey kanika. Its sunny this side.
She : hii , where do u live
Me : why ? Do u want to come for dinner tonight ?
She : tell me the place ?
Me : pitampura
She : i used to live there before
Me : meet me at 1 pm on saturday at CP for drinks or maybe lunch together.
She : lets meet in gurgaon ( gurgaon is the place where she lives )
Me: i dont know places in gurgaon bcz i hardly go there.
She : lets meet at cyberhub
( cyberhub is the place where she hangouts the most)
Me : ok the date fixed. I will see u on saturday at 1pm at cyberhub.
She : ok :)

Then she called me and started talking to me and i started asking her about her romantic fantasies and then all of a sudden she says i just make friends and im not interested in relationships and love and all.. then she says im in a bad mood right now and i will talk to u later.
Me : ok bye . Take a sleep and u will feel better. Cya.


Im not getting any nervous or anxiety vibes but infact im happy i approached her and im going out with a model.
But she is really irritating and i can feel that .
She is having lot of tantrums and lot of attitude. She feels like she is the queen of the world.
But im gonna just talk to her 2 times a week.
On 1st date itself ill just go for kiss ..this saturday itself. I didnt went for the kiss with the girl whom i went last saturday and she havent talked to me after that. So im gonna go for kino and kiss directly with this girl and i will lead her. Either she kisses or else she is gone. . I will next her .
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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marmel75

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OK...good job on getting the number.

Here are some issues:

1) Why are you calling her an hour later? Then ask if she wants to come to dinner tonight? Cmon bro..act like you have something better to do than talk to her..

2) Don't allow women to change the venue for a first date. She is doing this to see how controllable you are.

3) "Then she called me and started talking to me and i started asking her about her romantic fantasies and then all of a sudden she says i just make friends and im not interested in relationships and love and all.. then she says im in a bad mood right now and i will talk to u later."

She just friendzoned you and you don't even know it.

4) You better go for more than a kiss Saturday if she doesn't flake, which I'd put at a pretty high probability--maybe 80% flake...you might have one chance with this one...at some point, take her hand and put it directly on your C0ck, then leave your hand on top of hers so she can't pull it away...continue talking to her like nothing is going on...escalate
 
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If she flakes.i will delete her number and will next her. Its her loss not mine.
Yeah bro i agree i made some mistakes and i realised them 1 hour later that i got carried away. .my gut tells me that she is gonna come and im not going their just to talk or spend money on her. Im just gonna escalate from the beginning of the date
 

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1. She nexted you already, so you can't next her.
2. Cold approaching leads nowhere, except in rare cases.
3. She is not an HB9.
4. Considering she's pretty hot, she has dozens of hight quality guys to chose from.
5. Considering she's pretty hot, she is entitled, selfish, selfcenterd, and probably spoiled as well.

You're probably wasting your time.

Anyway, good job for talking to her, asking for her number etc.
-2 points for calling her after one hour of meeting her.
 
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