Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Approach Principle

Gammergq

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When having a conversation with a girl you like appart from the obvious closing her what is you guys principles e.g compliment her, have an interesting interaction, find out does she have a boyfriend you get the drift.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Axcell

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I personally do not like to compliment a girl until the first few dates, and even than, I only throw in 1 or 2 per every 3 dates. Also, there is a specific way to compliment a girl. Normally, complimenting her on her looks is not recommended. I tend to compliment a woman on her style of clothing, the way she did her hair, etc. In short, I compliment her on things which she does have control over, not things which were given to her by birth.

Just have casual conversation, ask questions and keep the conversation going. I tend to use kino after the first date to ensure she is comfortable around me first - this way, you avoid her becoming uncomfortable around you.

There are way too many things to state, and many of these questions have been repeated throughout this forum. However, I hope I helped. If you have any questions on what I posted, drop me a PM!
 
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