"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Approach Principle

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When having a conversation with a girl you like appart from the obvious closing her what is you guys principles e.g compliment her, have an interesting interaction, find out does she have a boyfriend you get the drift.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I personally do not like to compliment a girl until the first few dates, and even than, I only throw in 1 or 2 per every 3 dates. Also, there is a specific way to compliment a girl. Normally, complimenting her on her looks is not recommended. I tend to compliment a woman on her style of clothing, the way she did her hair, etc. In short, I compliment her on things which she does have control over, not things which were given to her by birth.

Just have casual conversation, ask questions and keep the conversation going. I tend to use kino after the first date to ensure she is comfortable around me first - this way, you avoid her becoming uncomfortable around you.

There are way too many things to state, and many of these questions have been repeated throughout this forum. However, I hope I helped. If you have any questions on what I posted, drop me a PM!
 
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