"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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iRose

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Alright so I think these are the three key steps to getting a girl. I need tips on approaching and meeting them in high school. Step number 1, just getting to know the girl, like..going from that stage when you see her in the hall, to talking to her.
Then onto step 2, which is getting the number after talking to her.
Then after texting her, pulling her in and getting her on your team.
I need tips on all of these.
Any advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LearningSlowly

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Join every club, community service project, after school thing that you can. These are the best ways to meet new girls. Meet them then escalate quickly, never risk the friend zone. After you meet them, make sure you say "Yeah! We should hang out again, here, i'll text you *as you pull out your phone and offer to them for their number*"

In order for the number close to work, make sure you pick a target early, and make a focused effort to get to know her, but don't neglect anyone else in the room.

Don't overuse texting. Have a goal in mind when you text, only text to reach that goal.

"How was your day? Did you have fun blahblahblah" sucks. Don't say that sh!t.
 

AlexLefty

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LearningSlowly said:
Join every club, community service project, after school thing that you can. These are the best ways to meet new girls. Meet them then escalate quickly, never risk the friend zone. After you meet them, make sure you say "Yeah! We should hang out again, here, i'll text you *as you pull out your phone and offer to them for their number*"

In order for the number close to work, make sure you pick a target early, and make a focused effort to get to know her, but don't neglect anyone else in the room.

Don't overuse texting. Have a goal in mind when you text, only text to reach that goal.

"How was your day? Did you have fun blahblahblah" sucks. Don't say that sh!t.
Agreed.
I'd say you should spend 1 week minimum and 2 weeks max building comfort before you try to get into her pants. Maybe even less if you text her often (i don't have texting)
 

Jack Wealthy

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go for it whenever. vibe and flow man. don't be stuck thinking you have to meet standard xyz.

My three stages (legit) pre-approach, post-approach, isolation. I don't like putting any focus on the approach because I just blend it in casually. Pre-approach is just walking around, being normal, being cool. Isolation is something like "Hey, come over here."
 

DanZy

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Building comfort, what a joke.
There's a far simpler method: Approach/engage, do what the **** you want/pull in.
Be interesting and humorous and you're in
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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