"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iRose

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Alright so I think these are the three key steps to getting a girl. I need tips on approaching and meeting them in high school. Step number 1, just getting to know the girl, like..going from that stage when you see her in the hall, to talking to her.
Then onto step 2, which is getting the number after talking to her.
Then after texting her, pulling her in and getting her on your team.
I need tips on all of these.
Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LearningSlowly

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Join every club, community service project, after school thing that you can. These are the best ways to meet new girls. Meet them then escalate quickly, never risk the friend zone. After you meet them, make sure you say "Yeah! We should hang out again, here, i'll text you *as you pull out your phone and offer to them for their number*"

In order for the number close to work, make sure you pick a target early, and make a focused effort to get to know her, but don't neglect anyone else in the room.

Don't overuse texting. Have a goal in mind when you text, only text to reach that goal.

"How was your day? Did you have fun blahblahblah" sucks. Don't say that sh!t.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Join every club, community service project, after school thing that you can. These are the best ways to meet new girls. Meet them then escalate quickly, never risk the friend zone. After you meet them, make sure you say "Yeah! We should hang out again, here, i'll text you *as you pull out your phone and offer to them for their number*"

In order for the number close to work, make sure you pick a target early, and make a focused effort to get to know her, but don't neglect anyone else in the room.

Don't overuse texting. Have a goal in mind when you text, only text to reach that goal.

"How was your day? Did you have fun blahblahblah" sucks. Don't say that sh!t.
Agreed.
I'd say you should spend 1 week minimum and 2 weeks max building comfort before you try to get into her pants. Maybe even less if you text her often (i don't have texting)
 

Jack Wealthy

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go for it whenever. vibe and flow man. don't be stuck thinking you have to meet standard xyz.

My three stages (legit) pre-approach, post-approach, isolation. I don't like putting any focus on the approach because I just blend it in casually. Pre-approach is just walking around, being normal, being cool. Isolation is something like "Hey, come over here."
 

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Building comfort, what a joke.
There's a far simpler method: Approach/engage, do what the **** you want/pull in.
Be interesting and humorous and you're in
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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