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Don Juan
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Food for thought for today:
Outside of the clubs/bars on Friday and Saturday nights, legitmate approaches, even on hot women, are actually really rare. I am not talking about a couple small talk lines, or staring at them, or honking your horn at them, but an actual, open, build, close approach. Most women exaggerate the number of approaches they get, counting in all of the really half-hearted ones to make themselves seem more desirable.
Ask a really hot girl you know and trust sometimes how many guys actually legitimately approach her in a non bar/club/party situation. You would be surprised at how little this actually happens. The last girl I dated was about a 8, though she tended to look like about a 9 from a distance until you got up closer to her (maybe this was just me getting sick of her face after three years!). I cannot even count the number of times she would get hit on at a bar when we went out, or how many guys would whistle and honk at her when we were walking down the street, even with me right there. She would always say "see how many creeps hit on me all the time". She would always tell me every one of these types of stories. However, I never once, in three years, saw her get hit on in a normal, everyday venue, such as a mall, grocery store, restaurant, etc. I asked her once if anyone ever hit on her in these places, and the answer was "about once a year maybe".
Fact is, 95% of guys out there are not consistently approaching when they are sober and in broad daylight. I am from a city of 2 million people and I can't find one friggin wing on here or ASF. Its a small community of us here. Many guys are in relationships, even more lack the confidence, and some just really aren't thinking about it much at that point in time. When was the last time you saw someone obviously sarging a girl at somewhere like say, Target? I'll let you keep thinking.
Let us assume then, conservatively, that 20% of the age appropriate women that you see at any given time are solid targets (desirable and available) Almost all of these women are open to advances. Women who really, honestly, dont want anyone are rare.
Lets then say that there are 200 people in the venue, half male and half female. If only 5% of the guys are approaching, this means there are five PUAs in the building, but 20 women looking, whether actively or passively, to be approached. Because a woman is passive in her pickup, there are almost ALWAYS more women out there looking to be picked up, if even on a subconscious level, than there are men who are willing to be aggressive enough to do it. In other words, at any time, all available women are in play and on the table, but only available AND courageous men are. This leaves a serious supply/demand disconnect. We are not even calibrating for game, appearance, desirablilty, etc., just raw numbers.
The odds are in our favor, gentlemen, and to the committed and courageous go the spoils.
Outside of the clubs/bars on Friday and Saturday nights, legitmate approaches, even on hot women, are actually really rare. I am not talking about a couple small talk lines, or staring at them, or honking your horn at them, but an actual, open, build, close approach. Most women exaggerate the number of approaches they get, counting in all of the really half-hearted ones to make themselves seem more desirable.
Ask a really hot girl you know and trust sometimes how many guys actually legitimately approach her in a non bar/club/party situation. You would be surprised at how little this actually happens. The last girl I dated was about a 8, though she tended to look like about a 9 from a distance until you got up closer to her (maybe this was just me getting sick of her face after three years!). I cannot even count the number of times she would get hit on at a bar when we went out, or how many guys would whistle and honk at her when we were walking down the street, even with me right there. She would always say "see how many creeps hit on me all the time". She would always tell me every one of these types of stories. However, I never once, in three years, saw her get hit on in a normal, everyday venue, such as a mall, grocery store, restaurant, etc. I asked her once if anyone ever hit on her in these places, and the answer was "about once a year maybe".
Fact is, 95% of guys out there are not consistently approaching when they are sober and in broad daylight. I am from a city of 2 million people and I can't find one friggin wing on here or ASF. Its a small community of us here. Many guys are in relationships, even more lack the confidence, and some just really aren't thinking about it much at that point in time. When was the last time you saw someone obviously sarging a girl at somewhere like say, Target? I'll let you keep thinking.
Let us assume then, conservatively, that 20% of the age appropriate women that you see at any given time are solid targets (desirable and available) Almost all of these women are open to advances. Women who really, honestly, dont want anyone are rare.
Lets then say that there are 200 people in the venue, half male and half female. If only 5% of the guys are approaching, this means there are five PUAs in the building, but 20 women looking, whether actively or passively, to be approached. Because a woman is passive in her pickup, there are almost ALWAYS more women out there looking to be picked up, if even on a subconscious level, than there are men who are willing to be aggressive enough to do it. In other words, at any time, all available women are in play and on the table, but only available AND courageous men are. This leaves a serious supply/demand disconnect. We are not even calibrating for game, appearance, desirablilty, etc., just raw numbers.
The odds are in our favor, gentlemen, and to the committed and courageous go the spoils.