"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Approach Journal: I made a bet

jt the azn

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June 4, 2007

Ok, fellow DJs, hear me out.

I made a bet to a friend that I will get laid before a certain period of time. Or else, I will not be able to drink until that time, which is a total pain. By the end of this month (June), I need to have gotten pvssy. I have been coming to this site for 2 months and I improved a lot. However, I feel like I need a big kick in the ass to get me going. This is the perfect opportunity.

I will try to write here everyday to tell my my day went. Feel free to comment on me. Wish me good motivation.

Sarge on fellow DJs, sarge on
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Go for the hottest HB you can find for the added pleasure of rubbing it in your friends face afterwards.
Don't go for a relationship though if your mission is to be laid.
Just remember, she is laying you and you shouldn't have to do the work for this, you are man she is woman.

You can do this, no sweat.
[One you're getting it, then you're allowed to start sweating.]
 

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Ahahahaha...you might have a drinking problem when....you bet your best friend to abstain until you get laid.

Oh man.....umm, ahah...I'm distracted now...
Drop that first approach down first, I'll be focused then.
 

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June 05, 2007

Things I did today to improve: I decide to stop masturbating until the end of the month. I didn't do it yesterday and I didn't do it today either. I'm doing to this to increase my sexual drive. Also, since exams are nearing, I'm studying like crazy. I have also been slacking a bit in my diet and workout program, but I went back to the gym today.

Last night, I got a push of motivation by watching "300". Those guys are all men, especially Leonidas.

And for approaches, I remember doing a few approaches in the past, but I don't count them anymore since they didn't get anywhere.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh, that's a gay post. How can I comment on nothing ><!

Naw, seriously...you just need to approach. Coffee shop, approach. Mall, approach. Street, approach. Friend's friend, approach.
 

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June 06, 2007

Well, I haven't been masturbating for 3 days and I can definitely feel the increase in libido. I cheated a bit with my diet, but that's alright cuz I'll work it off tomorrow morning.

As for approaches, I didn't do too well today. I didn't approach any strangers today.

However, I was at a school club party today. There is a chick there that I was gaming for about 2 months (when I started going to this site). I initiated some kino on her and got some conversation going. I don't think she is very sexually attracted though.

Moreover, there is this chick I know from school. I have also been practicing my DJ skills on her (eye contact, sexual kino, body language, etc.) Anyways, I think she is very sexually attracted to me, but I would not tap that ass, even for the sake of this challenge. I made plans to have a study session with her after school on Friday because Math exam is coming up. She planned that we should stay at school after classes. Let's see where this is going.
 

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I think there's a limit to ass size, where it becomes too big.
If you just want to get laid, go to some parties... but if you want a real challenge to improve your skills, go for someone in public or even go for a girlfriend for some attraction advantage to be used.
 

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wow why the hell did I say that thing about ass size..
 

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I am pretty fast in all the Dj thing and after 7 months i got good.
If you are just starting now you will need to do some work.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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