"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approach Journal: I made a bet

jt the azn

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June 4, 2007

Ok, fellow DJs, hear me out.

I made a bet to a friend that I will get laid before a certain period of time. Or else, I will not be able to drink until that time, which is a total pain. By the end of this month (June), I need to have gotten pvssy. I have been coming to this site for 2 months and I improved a lot. However, I feel like I need a big kick in the ass to get me going. This is the perfect opportunity.

I will try to write here everyday to tell my my day went. Feel free to comment on me. Wish me good motivation.

Sarge on fellow DJs, sarge on
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Go for the hottest HB you can find for the added pleasure of rubbing it in your friends face afterwards.
Don't go for a relationship though if your mission is to be laid.
Just remember, she is laying you and you shouldn't have to do the work for this, you are man she is woman.

You can do this, no sweat.
[One you're getting it, then you're allowed to start sweating.]
 

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Ahahahaha...you might have a drinking problem when....you bet your best friend to abstain until you get laid.

Oh man.....umm, ahah...I'm distracted now...
Drop that first approach down first, I'll be focused then.
 

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June 05, 2007

Things I did today to improve: I decide to stop masturbating until the end of the month. I didn't do it yesterday and I didn't do it today either. I'm doing to this to increase my sexual drive. Also, since exams are nearing, I'm studying like crazy. I have also been slacking a bit in my diet and workout program, but I went back to the gym today.

Last night, I got a push of motivation by watching "300". Those guys are all men, especially Leonidas.

And for approaches, I remember doing a few approaches in the past, but I don't count them anymore since they didn't get anywhere.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh, that's a gay post. How can I comment on nothing ><!

Naw, seriously...you just need to approach. Coffee shop, approach. Mall, approach. Street, approach. Friend's friend, approach.
 

jt the azn

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June 06, 2007

Well, I haven't been masturbating for 3 days and I can definitely feel the increase in libido. I cheated a bit with my diet, but that's alright cuz I'll work it off tomorrow morning.

As for approaches, I didn't do too well today. I didn't approach any strangers today.

However, I was at a school club party today. There is a chick there that I was gaming for about 2 months (when I started going to this site). I initiated some kino on her and got some conversation going. I don't think she is very sexually attracted though.

Moreover, there is this chick I know from school. I have also been practicing my DJ skills on her (eye contact, sexual kino, body language, etc.) Anyways, I think she is very sexually attracted to me, but I would not tap that ass, even for the sake of this challenge. I made plans to have a study session with her after school on Friday because Math exam is coming up. She planned that we should stay at school after classes. Let's see where this is going.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I think there's a limit to ass size, where it becomes too big.
If you just want to get laid, go to some parties... but if you want a real challenge to improve your skills, go for someone in public or even go for a girlfriend for some attraction advantage to be used.
 

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wow why the hell did I say that thing about ass size..
 

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I am pretty fast in all the Dj thing and after 7 months i got good.
If you are just starting now you will need to do some work.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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