"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Approach experiment ...

Ramrod

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Hey, starting college in a few days. I've approached women before - I get very nervous, but this is getting better. Talking to them is just a pain. Opening them is just a pain.

But in other avenues, I can be extremely confident and sometimes say outrageous things.

To be blunt: It's easier for me to say, "Wow, you look like a dirty *****!" than, "Hi, how are you doing?"

I've tried the apocalypse opener before. This is not going to be my main approach, obviously. But I want to experiment, especially in the first few days of college. I'm worried about sexual harassment and the like (the laws are ridiculous these days).

Basically, what I want to do is ask a girl, "Wanna ****?" and be done with it. "Where's your dorm room?" "Would you like to have sexual intercourse?" Just as an experiment. My college campus is huge, about the size of a small city.

I'm wondering if this constitutes sexual harassment (the last thing I want is to come home and be expelled for a stupid reason like this and having to explain it to my parents). And just a reminder, I'm going to be doing standard approaches. I'm just doing this as an *experiment* - just a few times. Give me some advice and tell me if I should go for it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, let's see. You want to know if you, approaching a woman who you don't know, who you've never seen before,and saying,"Excuse me, I can see your busy,but I want just wondering,would you like to have sex with me? Do you wanna f**k? You are wondering if this would be considered sexual harrassment? You want to know if you should do this or not,huh? Well,......this is a tough one,but I would have to say NO!!!

What would you hope to gain from this? What,a one night stand? Let's say you did do this and a girl did say yes.Is this the kind of girl you would really want? If you,a random guy out of the blue,just walked up to her and said,"Let go have sex" and she said ok,wouldn't you be wondering how many thousands of guys before you did the exact same thing with her?

I honestly hope you don't do this,because if you do,and you do it enough times,one day you are going to be walking around campus and see three or four girls whispering and pointing at you,and you are going to know that this thing has come back to haunt you,not to mention if you happen to say that to a girl who has a pyscho for a boyfriend.
 

WalkingStick

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I don't think it's illegal, but I wouldn't try it.

If you still plan on trying it, go out of town to "experiment"
 
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Igetit! said:
What would you hope to gain from this? What,a one night stand? Let's say you did do this and a girl did say yes.Is this the kind of girl you would really want? If you,a random guy out of the blue,just walked up to her and said,"Let go have sex" and she said ok,wouldn't you be wondering how many thousands of guys before you did the exact same thing with her?
I do not think many guys approach women to ask them for sex, except if it's in a bar and the guy is drunk. So chances of that happening, I don't know.
 
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