"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Approach experiment ...

Ramrod

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Hey, starting college in a few days. I've approached women before - I get very nervous, but this is getting better. Talking to them is just a pain. Opening them is just a pain.

But in other avenues, I can be extremely confident and sometimes say outrageous things.

To be blunt: It's easier for me to say, "Wow, you look like a dirty *****!" than, "Hi, how are you doing?"

I've tried the apocalypse opener before. This is not going to be my main approach, obviously. But I want to experiment, especially in the first few days of college. I'm worried about sexual harassment and the like (the laws are ridiculous these days).

Basically, what I want to do is ask a girl, "Wanna ****?" and be done with it. "Where's your dorm room?" "Would you like to have sexual intercourse?" Just as an experiment. My college campus is huge, about the size of a small city.

I'm wondering if this constitutes sexual harassment (the last thing I want is to come home and be expelled for a stupid reason like this and having to explain it to my parents). And just a reminder, I'm going to be doing standard approaches. I'm just doing this as an *experiment* - just a few times. Give me some advice and tell me if I should go for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, let's see. You want to know if you, approaching a woman who you don't know, who you've never seen before,and saying,"Excuse me, I can see your busy,but I want just wondering,would you like to have sex with me? Do you wanna f**k? You are wondering if this would be considered sexual harrassment? You want to know if you should do this or not,huh? Well,......this is a tough one,but I would have to say NO!!!

What would you hope to gain from this? What,a one night stand? Let's say you did do this and a girl did say yes.Is this the kind of girl you would really want? If you,a random guy out of the blue,just walked up to her and said,"Let go have sex" and she said ok,wouldn't you be wondering how many thousands of guys before you did the exact same thing with her?

I honestly hope you don't do this,because if you do,and you do it enough times,one day you are going to be walking around campus and see three or four girls whispering and pointing at you,and you are going to know that this thing has come back to haunt you,not to mention if you happen to say that to a girl who has a pyscho for a boyfriend.
 

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I don't think it's illegal, but I wouldn't try it.

If you still plan on trying it, go out of town to "experiment"
 
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Igetit! said:
What would you hope to gain from this? What,a one night stand? Let's say you did do this and a girl did say yes.Is this the kind of girl you would really want? If you,a random guy out of the blue,just walked up to her and said,"Let go have sex" and she said ok,wouldn't you be wondering how many thousands of guys before you did the exact same thing with her?
I do not think many guys approach women to ask them for sex, except if it's in a bar and the guy is drunk. So chances of that happening, I don't know.
 
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