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[gongxia649]

i was in the mall today. EC girls, but most seem they dont look at me. my question how i can do to approach this girls. if the first step fails.

 

[gongxia649]

bump

 

[Logen]

you can walk up to them and say "hi"

 

[gongxia649]

ill give it a try.,

 

[thefonz]

it's not so much a science as it is an art. Like acting or singing a song. I'm currently doing some approaches myself and it's basically about being aware of the situation and how you'd like to see it.

I can't just walk up to a girl and say hi so most of the ones I've done so far have been just throwing out a comment and seeing how she responds. Another one I wanted to try was the question thing where i go, "Can I ask you a question, my mom's birthday is tomorrow and I have no idea what to get her, what do women like?"

Then there's one (which my dj buddy says is lame, even though he does it too) where I look at a girl walking by and say, "Hey didn't I see you at Delta Kappa (or wherever) the other night?" Basically a flat out lie but if they're interested they'll let you keep talking. Hope this helps.

 

[SeldomSeen]

RE:

Originally posted by Logen
you can walk up to them and say "hi"

and then what? see you didnt give any backup feedback. YOu have to have your conversation ready otherwise you're going to fall flat on your face with just hello.

I used this technique in a bar the other day and to my surprise I actually got a conversation started and a phone number. Basically I walked close to a very nice looking woman I saw at the bar and acted as if I was on my cellphone and I said as if talking "Tom dont waste your time man, there really arent any hot women here tonight...no dont even bother coming up its pretty weak tonight"
She looked at me and before she said anything I said "I had to tell him that otherwise he wouldve come up here and seen all the cute girls thus giving me competition" She laughed and said "is he cute?" and I said "he's alright but not as cute as me" with a bit of ****iness and sarcasm. She laughed again and a conversation had started.
It was cheesy but it worked

So basically you need to draw up a topic or something to get the fire started

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

Originally posted by thefonz
it's not so much a science as it is an art. Like acting or singing a song. I'm currently doing some approaches myself and it's basically about being aware of the situation and how you'd like to see it.

I can't just walk up to a girl and say hi so most of the ones I've done so far have been just throwing out a comment and seeing how she responds. Another one I wanted to try was the question thing where i go, "Can I ask you a question, my mom's birthday is tomorrow and I have no idea what to get her, what do women like?"

Don't do something like that for your mother or sister, as it is assumed that you have know them either your or their whole life--make the example something else. I'm not sure exactly what--but if you say something like that--it shows that you don't pay much attention to your family--and that's not good.