"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Applying to teach English abroad

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After graduating from college this May, I intend to spend a the year between college and grad school teaching english in some East Asian country (and isn't that a familiar story?) because I've never been to that part of the world and I feel like I'm falling into a rut here in the US.

My top choices are Japan, China, Vietnam, and Korea. Strictly in terms of the opportunities for women and having a good time in general, what is the best choice? I am not very tall (5'7) but blond and blue-eyed if that makes any difference.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VIETNAM VIETNAM, the girls are hot, and a lot of them can speak english because of the vietnam war.
 

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there was a japan vs korea thread awhile back that had some good stuff in it. do a search for it
 

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Dude you're going to be in for a wild time! You'll have massive stories to tell when you get back. I think this is a great idea. It's a lot easier to travel right after graduation than later when you have house payments, taxes, student loans that are harder to defer then, etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cyp6 said:
japan dude.. ull feel most at home there. and japanies women are by far the hottest asian women
WRONG. Follow the scent of the Russian language. The Former Soviet Union packs more beauty than all other places combined. Kazakh and Kyrgyz girls have VERY "Oriental" features, are tall, and have enough Russian blood lines to make them the "hottest asian girls". Interesting enough, most are Muslims. You won't be able to teach them English though. Maybe go and learn Russian.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hz23smDcp0&feature=related

Oh yeah, MySpace is an Anglophile social networking site. It is not what non-English speaking parts of the world use.
 

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meitenesrigas said:
WRONG. Follow the scent of the Russian language. The Former Soviet Union packs more beauty than all other places combined. Kazakh and Kyrgyz girls have VERY "Oriental" features, are tall, and have enough Russian blood lines to make them the "hottest asian girls". Interesting enough, most are Muslims. You won't be able to teach them English though. Maybe go and learn Russian.
Uh, but the idea is to teach english, not just go to a country with hot women.
 

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fuzzx said:
Uh, but the idea is to teach english, not just go to a country with hot women.

HAHAHAhahHAHAHAHAHHAhaahaahaHAHHAHAHHAhahahaahahahahahHAHHAH

ARE YOU SERIOUS?

Dude, pick the women you like first then pick the country... you can get a job anywhere... I'll hire you if you want lol. Seriously theres always a job for a young naive 20 something teacher. You aren't the first, you wont be the last. My opinion, goto Korea. Lots of fun and women to be had there.
Maybe you misunderstood. I don't want to go to Khakstan or someplace similar because it's not a culture I'm interested in. Every country has pretty women; it doesn't make them places I'd want to go.
 

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bump
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Leporello said:
After graduating from college this May, I intend to spend a the year between college and grad school teaching english in some East Asian country (and isn't that a familiar story?) because I've never been to that part of the world and I feel like I'm falling into a rut here in the US.

My top choices are Japan, China, Vietnam, and Korea. Strictly in terms of the opportunities for women and having a good time in general, what is the best choice? I am not very tall (5'7) but blond and blue-eyed if that makes any difference.

I am actually teaching English in Korea right now. It has been a crazy experience. As far as girls go, I haven't had any trouble whatsoever but I here is is the least best of places to go in Asia if you are looking for girls. However, you are probaly much more likely to get AIDs or another disease in Vietnam. Japan is cool...but expensive as hell. As far as saving money goes, Korea is the best. Fully paid apartment and super cheap transportation plus cheap food and a nice salary. But the women in Vietnam from what I have heard are definitely more free spirited than Korea. Plus they sell drugs openly everywhere there....if that's your thing. If you are looking for the best time possible, I'd go to Vietnam because I have heard from many westerners over here that it's absolutely crazy. But trust me, anywhere you go here, you are going to have an unforgettable experience. It's just so much different than the west.
 

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Ihave to put my vote in for China, seeing as that is where I am now. Sichuan province has the hottest women in China and a ****ender for all east asia. My other choice would be to go to Japan. Blue-eyed devils get all kinds of ***** there, (well any asian country.).

Whatever you do don't base your decision on which women are hottest. Decide what country you want to see the most. All asian countries are very different.
 

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zinc64 said:
I am actually teaching English in Korea right now. It has been a crazy experience. As far as girls go, I haven't had any trouble whatsoever but I here is is the least best of places to go in Asia if you are looking for girls. However, you are probaly much more likely to get AIDs or another disease in Vietnam. Japan is cool...but expensive as hell. As far as saving money goes, Korea is the best. Fully paid apartment and super cheap transportation plus cheap food and a nice salary.
What, they stopped selling condoms? I wouldn't go in unprotected with any chick I wasn't married to, 1st, 2nd, or 3rd world. Though the odds of getting AIDS from straight sex are very low. And drugs are not my thing.

But the women in Vietnam from what I have heard are definitely more free spirited than Korea. Plus they sell drugs openly everywhere there....if that's your thing. If you are looking for the best time possible, I'd go to Vietnam because I have heard from many westerners over here that it's absolutely crazy. But trust me, anywhere you go here, you are going to have an unforgettable experience. It's just so much different than the west.
Free-spirited, really? I'd have thought (though I don't know, obviously) that it'd be more conservative.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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selfmademob said:
Just admit it, you just want to teach abroad to have sex with little girls ages 12 and younger.
I'm not Gary Glitter.
 

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lmao (plays that HEY song)
Yeah, they don't play that song so much anymore, and that's why.

Back on topic...
 

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Anybody have stories to tell?
 

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Well, I've been to Vietnam twice when I was younger. All I have to say is that they sure LOVE to pinch my cheek over there :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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