It seems impossible to incorporate all material on female/male psychology/interactions in real life situations. Upon reading tips and articles they all become very apparent but when the moment comes, how can you avoid hittin a dry spell and stumbling. Are there methods of always keeping in mind how to react to any situation?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Applying everthing
- Thread starter cNfny
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Docs
Banned
My MOOD dictates my ability to pick up.
If I'm in a good mood, I'm picking up.
If I'm in a bad mood, I really don't care.
That's about it for me
If I'm in a good mood, I'm picking up.
If I'm in a bad mood, I really don't care.
That's about it for me
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop trying to just memorize everything and focus on understanding the various concepts. It's a lot like riding a bike, it happens without having to review the methodology.