It seems impossible to incorporate all material on female/male psychology/interactions in real life situations. Upon reading tips and articles they all become very apparent but when the moment comes, how can you avoid hittin a dry spell and stumbling. Are there methods of always keeping in mind how to react to any situation?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Applying everthing
- Thread starter cNfny
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Docs
Banned
My MOOD dictates my ability to pick up.
If I'm in a good mood, I'm picking up.
If I'm in a bad mood, I really don't care.
That's about it for me
If I'm in a good mood, I'm picking up.
If I'm in a bad mood, I really don't care.
That's about it for me
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop trying to just memorize everything and focus on understanding the various concepts. It's a lot like riding a bike, it happens without having to review the methodology.