"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The central themes espoused on this site are clearly relevant wherever you are. This is because women are emotional beings that look for guys that will improve their status, self-esteem and security

However, I live in Sydney which is a los angeles-like, competitive, cocaine infested city

So things like day approaches simply do not work (unless you approach foreign tourists). Even approaching women at the bars is impossible in Sydney. The way to get girls here is to go to a bar with friends and act like you are the coolest group in the place and let the girls come to you

Another tool which is inapplicable is online dating - 10 guys for every girl . In the united states, it is more acceptable for women and the ratios are a lot better

I would imagine that the strategies in the states would differ from city to city as well

Experiences and comments welcome
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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seasonedplayer said:
The central themes espoused on this site are clearly relevant wherever you are. This is because women are emotional beings that look for guys that will improve their status, self-esteem and security

However, I live in Sydney which is a los angeles-like, competitive, cocaine infested city

So things like day approaches simply do not work (unless you approach foreign tourists). Even approaching women at the bars is impossible in Sydney. The way to get girls here is to go to a bar with friends and act like you are the coolest group in the place and let the girls come to you

Another tool which is inapplicable is online dating - 10 guys for every girl . In the united states, it is more acceptable for women and the ratios are a lot better

I would imagine that the strategies in the states would differ from city to city as well

Experiences and comments welcome
i fell ya homie, i live in a L.A. type of cocaines infested wasteland as well. it seems girls here love the glamor of shiny materialistic bull**** that only leaves them high for the moment. girls have no rational thought whatsoever!!! you would be most likely a god here in the states just because of your accent. i was thinking of making my way out there and coz i heard that Americans are widely sought after there, but then again i hear girls in New Zealand are the most slutty in the whole world.
 

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I disagree. It's not "impossible" to approach anywhere. You're probably just not doing it well. Some cities are harder than others, but Australians are actually more open and friendly than Americans from my experience and Australians I've talked to.

The only big cultural differences I've noticed in gaming are 1) Body language and how people express themselves -- i.e., Italians and Greeks are EXTREMELY expressive, the French stand very close to each other and touch a lot, British Americans and Japanese are pretty stand-offish, etc. -- and 2) how sexually open different cultures are. Americans are actually pretty sexually repressed compared to their European and Aussie/Kiwi counterparts. Japan is very sexual but hides it whereas Latin America ACTS very sexually but the women are actually more prude after you pick them up.
 
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