"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Appetite

Yookiwooki

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Hey all,

I've just decided to work on bulking up from my 5'11'' 140 lbs. scrawnyness...

I've never been known to have a big appetite and looking at some of the dietary suggestions in the stickies, I don't know if I can acually eat enough to make that kind of change.

Anyone know how to increase your appetite besides just eating till you think your going to puke?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wolf116

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How do you eat an elephant??? in lots of little bits.

You will slowly get used to it. Sometimes you'll fill like you need to puke but that's all part of it.
 

Warboss Alex

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cardio will help stimulate the metabolism and increase appetite..

otherwise just cultivate the pregnant look and you should do well. :D
 
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