"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Appeal – for single men"
- Thread starter Rave18
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
user43770
Guest
What's your point? Are you saying I should move to this country and "man up?"
Fvck that.
I'm sick of being ridiculed by women because I'm not married yet. They can eat another d1ck. I don't want anything to do with them.
I'm sick of women projecting their desperateness on me; I swallowed the red pill several years ago. KontrollerX and Burroughs gave it to me.
Samspade, fvck these b1tches, man. What's the ****ing point anymore?
user43770
Guest
I would tell that dude to not give up.
Youve had women outright ridicule you for being single? Damn, Im 27, soon to be 28, and Ive yet to have that happen. Maybe its something Ill soon experience, but usually when I tell any women Im not ready for a relationship and am trying to get my life in order, they agree with my plan. I top it off by saying I dont want to rush and end up committed to someone who's wrong for me...and I dont ever get shamed for saying that. And this is all women...friends, acquaintances, romantic interests, etc....none have shamed me.TyTe`EyEz said:
Maybe its a function of my age. Things might be different when Im 29. Plus Im in NY...not NYC, but the burbs of metro NYC. People tend to still be single longer than other parts of the country. Not as much as in NYC, but still longer than the south or midwest. Plus I look young too, so maybe thats part of me avoiding being shamed. Though I do think about when it may start sometimes. Many of my friends are now settling down, getting married, and some are having kids...so I expect the questions to start soon.
Dunno how Ill handle the snarky remarks I may get in the future. This does remind me of the time I was out with a buddy and he brought a chick friend along that I mildly knew. We all had been drinking some at the bar, and she asks me to buy her a drink. And I said "I dont buy girls drinks" with a grin on my face. And she goes "good luck not having a girlfriend" in a snarky tone. To which I replied "Oh trust me, Im having a blast".
If thats the bullsh!t I get from a girl I barely know because I wouldnt buy her a drink...I cant imagine the remarks a chick will throw at dudes who arent ready or may never want to get married.
Desdinova
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She didn't like being faithful to her man, so she started her own all-woman town as a backlash. Hopefully natural selection will render them unfruitful with children and the entire town will die off in 75 years or so. The ones that realize it's a trap that leads to extinction will leave and find men in other parts of the world.
Where are all the good men? Well, they won't be visiting your town anytime soon!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
I say let them die miserable and lonely.
logicallefty
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So how is life now ladies?
user43770
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user43770
Guest
Ignorance is bliss.
VikingKing
Banned
Danger said:
It would be a night of carnage, death, and pleasure...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.