"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Appeal – for single men"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
user43770
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What's your point? Are you saying I should move to this country and "man up?"
Fvck that.
I'm sick of being ridiculed by women because I'm not married yet. They can eat another d1ck. I don't want anything to do with them.
I'm sick of women projecting their desperateness on me; I swallowed the red pill several years ago. KontrollerX and Burroughs gave it to me.
Samspade, fvck these b1tches, man. What's the ****ing point anymore?
user43770
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I would tell that dude to not give up.
Youve had women outright ridicule you for being single? Damn, Im 27, soon to be 28, and Ive yet to have that happen. Maybe its something Ill soon experience, but usually when I tell any women Im not ready for a relationship and am trying to get my life in order, they agree with my plan. I top it off by saying I dont want to rush and end up committed to someone who's wrong for me...and I dont ever get shamed for saying that. And this is all women...friends, acquaintances, romantic interests, etc....none have shamed me.TyTe`EyEz said:
Maybe its a function of my age. Things might be different when Im 29. Plus Im in NY...not NYC, but the burbs of metro NYC. People tend to still be single longer than other parts of the country. Not as much as in NYC, but still longer than the south or midwest. Plus I look young too, so maybe thats part of me avoiding being shamed. Though I do think about when it may start sometimes. Many of my friends are now settling down, getting married, and some are having kids...so I expect the questions to start soon.
Dunno how Ill handle the snarky remarks I may get in the future. This does remind me of the time I was out with a buddy and he brought a chick friend along that I mildly knew. We all had been drinking some at the bar, and she asks me to buy her a drink. And I said "I dont buy girls drinks" with a grin on my face. And she goes "good luck not having a girlfriend" in a snarky tone. To which I replied "Oh trust me, Im having a blast".
If thats the bullsh!t I get from a girl I barely know because I wouldnt buy her a drink...I cant imagine the remarks a chick will throw at dudes who arent ready or may never want to get married.
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She didn't like being faithful to her man, so she started her own all-woman town as a backlash. Hopefully natural selection will render them unfruitful with children and the entire town will die off in 75 years or so. The ones that realize it's a trap that leads to extinction will leave and find men in other parts of the world.
Where are all the good men? Well, they won't be visiting your town anytime soon!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
I say let them die miserable and lonely.
logicallefty
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So how is life now ladies?
user43770
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user43770
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Ignorance is bliss.
VikingKing
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Danger said:
It would be a night of carnage, death, and pleasure...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.