"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Apparently she "rejected" the wrong guy

Who Dares Win

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Ayoade later told police that the petite 16-year-old 'didn't have a friendly face', that he was 'intimidated by her' and that she 'made me feel like a pauper with her facial gestures'.

He said he couldn’t cope with 'taking an insult from a little person like that'.
More like a day to day sodini? look like a case of approach an..rage.

If I have to be honest despite realizing that the aggressor is scum and needs to be arrested and be thrown in jail, for some reason Im smiling, I understand that its wrong but somehow I can see myself in that guy and see in that girl all the girls which not only rejected me (sh1t happens) but by doing so didnt even bother to care about what could have been done to my feelings or the hit to my self esteem.

Again I know that he needs to be jailed and she is a victim but despite my brain understands, my stomach still has a say.
I know Im a terrible person but at least Im not a liar or PC crusader.







http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2237501/Thug-Michael-Ayoade-36-admits-punching-Tasneem-Kabir-16-unconscious-shocking-random-street-attack.html
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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he should be shot. that sh1t is unacceptable.
 

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Who Dares Wins: Your experiences with women are supposed to be healing, not destroying.

If you don't understand that -- you are digging yourself a grave with your efforts, not a foundation.

I can see myself in that guy and see in that girl all the girls which not only rejected me (sh1t happens) but by doing so didnt even bother to care about what could have been done to my feelings or the hit to my self esteem.
You just said something very valuable, and I used to make the same mistake in thinking. Check out what Taiyuu and Iqqi said to me here.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176323

Realizing they were right helped me a lot. You are caring too much; it can do ugly things to you. Be smarter than this man.
 

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Thanks for posting here information… I have searched from this site.. It is amazing..
 

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I dont see any reason to smile in this case, the guy is a grade A1 arsehole. deserves what is coming to him in prison
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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