"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Apparently she "rejected" the wrong guy

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Ayoade later told police that the petite 16-year-old 'didn't have a friendly face', that he was 'intimidated by her' and that she 'made me feel like a pauper with her facial gestures'.

He said he couldn’t cope with 'taking an insult from a little person like that'.
More like a day to day sodini? look like a case of approach an..rage.

If I have to be honest despite realizing that the aggressor is scum and needs to be arrested and be thrown in jail, for some reason Im smiling, I understand that its wrong but somehow I can see myself in that guy and see in that girl all the girls which not only rejected me (sh1t happens) but by doing so didnt even bother to care about what could have been done to my feelings or the hit to my self esteem.

Again I know that he needs to be jailed and she is a victim but despite my brain understands, my stomach still has a say.
I know Im a terrible person but at least Im not a liar or PC crusader.







http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2237501/Thug-Michael-Ayoade-36-admits-punching-Tasneem-Kabir-16-unconscious-shocking-random-street-attack.html
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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he should be shot. that sh1t is unacceptable.
 

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Who Dares Wins: Your experiences with women are supposed to be healing, not destroying.

If you don't understand that -- you are digging yourself a grave with your efforts, not a foundation.

I can see myself in that guy and see in that girl all the girls which not only rejected me (sh1t happens) but by doing so didnt even bother to care about what could have been done to my feelings or the hit to my self esteem.
You just said something very valuable, and I used to make the same mistake in thinking. Check out what Taiyuu and Iqqi said to me here.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176323

Realizing they were right helped me a lot. You are caring too much; it can do ugly things to you. Be smarter than this man.
 

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Thanks for posting here information… I have searched from this site.. It is amazing..
 

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I dont see any reason to smile in this case, the guy is a grade A1 arsehole. deserves what is coming to him in prison
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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