"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_Trainee_10

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I recently saw a tip here about going up to a girl and saying "Hey are you Anne?" Purposefully saying her wrong name.

She'll say "No."

Then you say, "Oh what's your name?" or something on those lines.

Then get creative with it and just get to know her. Say things that makes her take about her. Such as:

"Do you go to -name of your school-?"
"What grade are you in?"
"Participate in any sports or clubs?"

I tried this tip online (AIM) and works well with good looking girls you want to get to know, and "somehow" have their screenname :woo:... However there is the down side that you're not person to person and can't do keno or eye contact, the works.

It's a nice ice breaker and should have no problem approaching her the next day. Say something like "Hey were you the one I talked to the other?" or whatever. Get creative at that point.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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or you can grab your balls, and talk to her like a person.
 

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Originally posted by True Wolf
or you can grab your balls, and talk to her like a person.
I concur...its strange when i give advice like these im being too mean...
 

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I like the idea. I think it is a great tip for people, like myself, who have not yet been able to approach girls well. Thank you for the GREAT tip.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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