"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I recently saw a tip here about going up to a girl and saying "Hey are you Anne?" Purposefully saying her wrong name.

She'll say "No."

Then you say, "Oh what's your name?" or something on those lines.

Then get creative with it and just get to know her. Say things that makes her take about her. Such as:

"Do you go to -name of your school-?"
"What grade are you in?"
"Participate in any sports or clubs?"

I tried this tip online (AIM) and works well with good looking girls you want to get to know, and "somehow" have their screenname :woo:... However there is the down side that you're not person to person and can't do keno or eye contact, the works.

It's a nice ice breaker and should have no problem approaching her the next day. Say something like "Hey were you the one I talked to the other?" or whatever. Get creative at that point.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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or you can grab your balls, and talk to her like a person.
 

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Originally posted by True Wolf
or you can grab your balls, and talk to her like a person.
I concur...its strange when i give advice like these im being too mean...
 

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I like the idea. I think it is a great tip for people, like myself, who have not yet been able to approach girls well. Thank you for the GREAT tip.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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