“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyway to still maintain frame here?

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Went out on a first date with a woman two weeks ago. Great date and ended the night making out in the parking lot and her rubbing up on my ****, probably blew it by not banging her that night. Anyway, I always wait for women to contact me after the 1st date.

A woman who has high interest will 9 out of 10 times contact me first. This woman did not so I ended up reaching out to her three days later asking her if she wanted to get together in a few days, she said work was really busy this week, she is a doctor but told me that next week is open. I told her I was going to be out of town for a few days and would reach out to her when I return. I texted her when I got back to meet up this Sunday, no response for two days.

I then did something that I normally wouldnt do, I CALLED her out in a funny way. Surprise, surprise she immediately responded with "WHAT!!! sorry didnt realize I didnt text you back". This ***** actually had the nerve to tell me this. I go no contact, one hour later she sends me a text " Are you still up for Sunday!?

I knew I had lost frame when I decided to call her out and as much as I would love to bang her out I think its best I let this one go. Tell me I am making the right move? LOL
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She’s a doctor. Do you think she may have a busy schedule? Also parking lots are not prime isolation areas.…
 

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This has nothing to do with maintaining frame. All you did was seem a bit desperate. If I don't see immediate signs of high interest on the first date, I usually wait a week after the first date to ask her out again.

And you shouldn't be calling out on her. That's week and needy.
You still have a shot, just keep asking her out once a week and have fun.
 

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This has nothing to do with maintaining frame. All you did was seem a bit desperate. If I don't see immediate signs of high interest on the first date, I usually wait a week after the first date to ask her out again.

And you shouldn't be calling out on her. That's week and needy.
You still have a shot, just keep asking her out once a week and have fun.
Just this.. no need to overthink
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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