"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anything wrong with this cold approach?

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david90

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I was walking through the mall and I saw this girl inside a clothing store. I went straight in and said, "Hi, I saw you while walking by and I would like to meet you." She gigggled and I extended my hand and introduced myself. She gave her name in return and shook my hand. After that people came in the store and she had to helped them. I told i'd be back later but I did not.

How was my openner?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don of Truth

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Direct, to the point. Not creepy, not cheesy, and if the girl thinks you are cute it's all you need.
I suppose the girl will now be thinking "why did he want to meet me" so if you have some material to follow up with then sounds like a good cold approach.

Now, if I could only keep from wetting my pants I could do that too !
 
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you have balls and are sure of yourself doing something like that.I LIKE IT.
 
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Good approach but you must either get her number or get rejected before you leave the store!!!
 
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it would akward if i stay.

Customers came in and she had to leave my side to help them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Hey quick, give me your number - there are people here who you should cater too...I'll pretend I'm a customer while you slip me the digits!!!" " Hurry up Ho, give them to me!!!"
 
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