"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anything wrong with this cold approach?

david90

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I was walking through the mall and I saw this girl inside a clothing store. I went straight in and said, "Hi, I saw you while walking by and I would like to meet you." She gigggled and I extended my hand and introduced myself. She gave her name in return and shook my hand. After that people came in the store and she had to helped them. I told i'd be back later but I did not.

How was my openner?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don of Truth

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Direct, to the point. Not creepy, not cheesy, and if the girl thinks you are cute it's all you need.
I suppose the girl will now be thinking "why did he want to meet me" so if you have some material to follow up with then sounds like a good cold approach.

Now, if I could only keep from wetting my pants I could do that too !
 

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you have balls and are sure of yourself doing something like that.I LIKE IT.
 
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Good approach but you must either get her number or get rejected before you leave the store!!!
 

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it would akward if i stay.

Customers came in and she had to leave my side to help them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Hey quick, give me your number - there are people here who you should cater too...I'll pretend I'm a customer while you slip me the digits!!!" " Hurry up Ho, give them to me!!!"
 
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