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This question corresponds to what I had asked a couple of weeks ago about the same girl that cuts my hair. (She was telling me about her bad.. bad.. baddddddddddddd... fight with her current boyfriend).


After reading the responses I got, I had to agree with everyone else that she was just being friendly and conversationsal. (I got alot pms too from ladies saying the same).



Anyways, I stop in Saturday to pick up some hair cream and she was working. She gives me a flirtatious hello when she seems me. I tell her that I already know that they are out of the normal brand that I use and asked if she remember the alternate brand she recommended a few months ago.

She takes time away from her appointments to look it up and then gives it to me. Silently tells me not to worry about paying for it. Even told me to bring it back in a couple of weeks and she would exchange it for my regular brand. (Holds her hand on my arm while she tells me that). Now this stuff isnt cheap. It runs about $20.

I just tell her I will see her in two weeks then & leave. Now I am back to wondering if she is interested. I am kind of thinking about given her my business card (with my cell #) the next time I get my hair cut.

Am I over reading into this still?
 

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Originally posted by leeman67
This question corresponds to what I had asked a couple of weeks ago about the same girl that cuts my hair. (She was telling me about her bad.. bad.. baddddddddddddd... fight with her current boyfriend).


After reading the responses I got, I had to agree with everyone else that she was just being friendly and conversationsal. (I got alot pms too from ladies saying the same).



Anyways, I stop in Saturday to pick up some hair cream and she was working. She gives me a flirtatious hello when she seems me. I tell her that I already know that they are out of the normal brand that I use and asked if she remember the alternate brand she recommended a few months ago.

She takes time away from her appointments to look it up and then gives it to me. Silently tells me not to worry about paying for it. Even told me to bring it back in a couple of weeks and she would exchange it for my regular brand. (Holds her hand on my arm while she tells me that). Now this stuff isnt cheap. It runs about $20.

I just tell her I will see her in two weeks then & leave. Now I am back to wondering if she is interested. I am kind of thinking about given her my business card (with my cell #) the next time I get my hair cut.

Am I over reading into this still?
UMMNMMMM>>.No? If she confuses you then leave that Bitc* alone...? Simple?Yes? Good!

"Turn fear Into Curiosity"
 

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Just so you know dude, Hair dressers are paid to be friendly that is how they get clients, I have a great friendship with my hairdresser...free product...free haircuts....hell I get invited to their work christmas party but we are just friends, most good hairdressers are good because they are over friendly....also they get hit on almost every day....my advice dont do it. just leave it and find some other chick / chicks
 

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yeah, I was just kind of curious. I have went to hair dressers for years, but never the same person. She just happens to do an awsome job with my hair when no one else can. I finally after years of failed attempts , got my hair looking the way I like it. So it through me when she gave me that. I guess I m reaching....LOL.
 
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