"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Before I could talk to her today she came up to me, playful slap, "when are we getting together again" as if nothing was amiss.

I told her we'd talk after class.

After class she acts like I'm not there until I call her by name, then said she was so tired she forgot we were supposed to talk (heh).

In any case, I set it up for Friday. She said anything would be fine as long as there was no alcohol.

Here's the backstory:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=366360#post366360
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JohnJones

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I sense a secret bad-girl lurking behind the alchohol ban.
 

Walden

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Originally posted by coin

After class she acts like I'm not there until I call her by name, then said she was so tired she forgot we were supposed to talk (heh).
NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT!






She's not interested dude.
 

B9

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"Dude", find out instead of backing off at the slightest sign of potential disinterest.

"Next" seems to have become the catchphrase for "I don't want to be rejected" around here. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by B9
"Dude", find out instead of backing off at the slightest sign of potential disinterest.

"Next" seems to have become the catchphrase for "I don't want to be rejected" around here. :rolleyes:
i agree. see how it goes... if it dosent work out...THEN next. i doubt either of you have formed any serious emotional connection so you got nothing to loose really.

Cheers.
 
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