Anything in particular that I can do to improve those aspects of myself?

[Shivastorm_88]

• Be more of a Man
1. Live by my passions and desire, grab what I want and do not apologize for it
2. Deal with problems, don’t run away
3. Speak my mind
• Don’t take ****
1. If something bothers me, fix it
2. Speak my mind
• Put myself on a pedestal
1. Do not care what others think of me
2. Put my fun in top priority

Basically the three dots are the three aspects I want to work on, and the numbers under are some things that are part of the big categories. Only thing is, I don't have any idea how to work these other then by keeping the mentality I need. Any exercises I can do to make it more and more natural for me?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

• Be more of a Man
1. Live by my passions and desire, grab what I want and do not apologize for it

And realize that you don't have to be an @sshole to be assertive.

2. Deal with problems, don’t run away

But don't forget to take a moment or two to review the situation so as not to make hasty decisions.

3. Speak my mind

Have an opinion but understand that not everyone has to agree with it.

• Don’t take ****

But there isn't a need to go looking for it.

• Put myself on a pedestal

But don't knock others to the ground in order to get up there.

1. Do not care what others think of me

It always good to take what they say into consideration however you have no obligation to agree with them or change yourself for their benefit.

2. Put my fun in top priority

But don't jeopardize your livelihood.

Basically the three dots are the three aspects I want to work on, and the numbers under are some things that are part of the big categories. Only thing is, I don't have any idea how to work these other then by keeping the mentality I need. Any exercises I can do to make it more and more natural for me?

Understand who you are aside from who people perceive you to be.

 

[OrdinaryMadness]

Practice, Practice, Practice...

A year ago, I would have considered myself an AFC. Since then, when I discovered DJ, I told myself "enough is enough" and I began going out there and practicing my skills with the ladies.

I am the king-pimp-of-all-pimps-mack-daddy? hell no. But I realized I don't need to be, all I did was work on my confidence, and that doesn't happen overnight.

One thing I started doing was looking at hot girls differently. I guess its the whole putting them on a pedestal thing. I began to just see them as equal to me. You have to realize they are smokin' hot because they want to attract someone. You must exploit this and assert yourself, this way you will show them you are confident and not some average d-bag loser who hits on them all the time. By changing your mentality, I feel you gain the advantage over most guys tryin to score some pvssy.