"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was just wondering
The description of the forum Anything Else goes like this:
Sports, the weather, what's happening in the news ... or anything else. Talk about it here.

Elections are on the news and we cant post about it???Just a thought!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We used to be able to. But the nature of politics lately is that there is very little tolerance for the viewpoints of others. These threads quickly devolve into pissing contests. I should know -- I used to post in them and was as guilty of this as anyone else.

Many of us have strong political opinions, and that's a good thing. And there are sites that are specifically designed to handle the kind of environment partisan feuding. This isn't one of them.

The two major discussion forums for the political parties are:

Right wing: www.freerepublic.com
Left wing: www.democraticunderground.com

Both sites have reasonable people as well as some that are loonie tunes.

People at Yahoo! forums are also pretty much a mixture.
 

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Because they lead to flame wars and more work for the moderators. I mean, we are mods...We don't want to work.
 

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Originally posted by eternal
we are mods...We don't want to work.
exactly.

Yellowhat.org is also another place to argue pointless sh*t like politics if you feel so compeled to waste your time doing that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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