"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sato21m

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I was just wondering
The description of the forum Anything Else goes like this:
Sports, the weather, what's happening in the news ... or anything else. Talk about it here.

Elections are on the news and we cant post about it???Just a thought!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Giovanni Casanova

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We used to be able to. But the nature of politics lately is that there is very little tolerance for the viewpoints of others. These threads quickly devolve into pissing contests. I should know -- I used to post in them and was as guilty of this as anyone else.

Many of us have strong political opinions, and that's a good thing. And there are sites that are specifically designed to handle the kind of environment partisan feuding. This isn't one of them.

The two major discussion forums for the political parties are:

Right wing: www.freerepublic.com
Left wing: www.democraticunderground.com

Both sites have reasonable people as well as some that are loonie tunes.

People at Yahoo! forums are also pretty much a mixture.
 

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Because they lead to flame wars and more work for the moderators. I mean, we are mods...We don't want to work.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by eternal
we are mods...We don't want to work.
exactly.

Yellowhat.org is also another place to argue pointless sh*t like politics if you feel so compeled to waste your time doing that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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