"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anything about a girl's past

zolo

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that would stop you from dating her

For instance she was a tramp and screwed lots of guys
was pregnant or had an abortion
Was molested or raped
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shooter

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Tattoos kind of bother me

I agree, Daddy issues is a big nono

The preggo thing would turn me off too


It doesn't bother me, but many of my friends wont date a girl who has been with a black guy. Actually I think girls that have are freakeier as they are less inhibated about things considered taboo.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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its all personal. more about what YOU will accept from her.

sure, u can have sex with a girl who had issues before with rape or whatever, but you'll have to have serious trust and probably an LTR before she'll do it. she might get a bit too emotionally attached, so proceed with caution
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PRMoon

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Three words.

Long Criminal Record.
 

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Personality disorders would make me say "hell no" to dating.

F*cking, however is a different story. Unless she's a convicted murderer/arsonist/some other serious felony I think I'd go for it.
 

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I dated a girl about two months ago (HB9ish) who after a month of dating starts telling me how her dad used to abuse her, and that her ex fiance cheated on her two months before the wedding day. She openly admitted to have serious trust issues with men and an extremely low self esteem.

She ****ed like a pornstar, but I didn't want all of her issues in my life.
 

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Why is it that the girls who have daddy issues do F9&$ like dogs and you have to basically ignore them even after they have broken up or dumped you for them to come back?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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